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mapsedge[Error: unknown template qotd] I spent News Year's Day feeling out-of-phase and listless, but that comes of a late night (among other things), and I doubt very much is an indicator of how the rest of the year will go. I didn't perk up - not really - until the evening. A meal of Chinese food, kind of a tradition at our house - and some small physical activity helped.
Onward.
In our family, we've pledged to make this a year of better balance, and better attention paid to the things that matter. Imperative (bills, IRS), important (kids, family, friends), needs (flooring, go figure), and wants (DTV converters), for examples.
Stay focused: If a cup of tea would be comforting, make the tea right then, don't put it off just because something shiny sparkles in the margins of our attention.
I want to not speak when whispering will do, to not raise my voice when speaking will do, to not shout when raising my voice will do, and ultimately to not shout at all. It's rarely needed, anyway.
When I work, I want to work like I'm showing off. When my partners think I'm a genius, I want there to be a real reason, not just because I whipped through something by the seat of my pants too fast for them to catch the details.
I want to make more music, shoot more video. I want to write more songs (that's a whole post, right there.) I want to sing like Josh Groban but still sound like me.
I want to beat my kids every day. They know what I mean :)
I want to love my wife every day, even in those times when we don't much like each other.
The new year is just an easy way to mark a line in the sand and say, "From here, these things will change." Arbitrary, but you have to start somewhere, right?
Onward.
In our family, we've pledged to make this a year of better balance, and better attention paid to the things that matter. Imperative (bills, IRS), important (kids, family, friends), needs (flooring, go figure), and wants (DTV converters), for examples.
Stay focused: If a cup of tea would be comforting, make the tea right then, don't put it off just because something shiny sparkles in the margins of our attention.
I want to not speak when whispering will do, to not raise my voice when speaking will do, to not shout when raising my voice will do, and ultimately to not shout at all. It's rarely needed, anyway.
When I work, I want to work like I'm showing off. When my partners think I'm a genius, I want there to be a real reason, not just because I whipped through something by the seat of my pants too fast for them to catch the details.
I want to make more music, shoot more video. I want to write more songs (that's a whole post, right there.) I want to sing like Josh Groban but still sound like me.
I want to beat my kids every day. They know what I mean :)
I want to love my wife every day, even in those times when we don't much like each other.
The new year is just an easy way to mark a line in the sand and say, "From here, these things will change." Arbitrary, but you have to start somewhere, right?
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excellent wishes
Date: 2009-01-02 19:04 (UTC)Re: excellent wishes
Date: 2009-01-02 19:30 (UTC)As I said, they know what it means. It typically involves lots of them giggling and me chasing, it that helps.
well, ok then
Date: 2009-01-02 19:32 (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-01-03 10:52 (UTC)This year I made a post about what I did and it was doing things for me and having my mind happy and clear. Blowing off all the things that rode on my shoulders and have a new attitude to things that I was not happy with last year. Already I am on day 3 and I still feel fresh and new in many ways.
Best of luck to you for 2009!