mljm and I communicate as much by email as we do in person, and sometimes more. It's the one place where our four year old can't interrupt a train of thought (an issue I struggle with) or try to drown out what she doesn't want to listen to. What's wierd about posting here is that it adds yet another layer to that communication, and I'm painfully aware that someday I'm going to throw some thought online, and when I get home I'm gonna hear, "Saw your post. Didn't occur to you to tell me first, eh Mr. Big Time Author?" (Actually, we're a lot more passive-aggressive at my house. I'd just wake up with a cat on my head.)
So, might as well get it out of the way, honey. Here's something I didn't write in my morning missive: got a positively savage headache. I know why. A full day hunched over a serger and coverstitch machine after a dinner date with some new friends that lasted until 2:00 am Sunday morning, and a too late night last night getting a massive order ready to ship, cleaning up some in the kitchen and doing the dishes.
Still, a good weekend for all that. The largest order in the shop is out, the house got a good cleaning on Saturday getting ready for dinner... It's amazing what gets done when two people are united to a common goal and common love, eh
rowangolightly ?
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Date: 2005-03-07 15:44 (UTC)And ditto with sometimes things get said here that may not get mentioned at home first, sometimes we just forget stuff! ....but absolutely no passive-aggressive stuff here at home, Bruce and I are completely allergic to that, having both lived with it and gotten over it.
Besides, I wake up with a cat on my head most mornings anyway, as does Bruce ...Bobby prefers my pillow and her daughter loves Bruce's. There's nothing quite like purring ear-muffs.
*snerk*
Date: 2005-03-07 20:43 (UTC)Re: *snerk*
Date: 2005-03-08 03:17 (UTC)But I'll admit that I don't remember the particular reference...I've slept since then. (That's my excuse and I'm sticking to it.)
ok...
Date: 2005-03-08 14:00 (UTC)"Oh good gracious, my earmuffs have fallen down."
Add the image of purring ones, &.....
Re: ok...
Date: 2005-03-08 19:50 (UTC)I laughed so hard...and the Aunt is the same actress who plays Elizabeth's nanny. I have SO got to get that series again!
It is a little weird
Date: 2005-03-07 16:06 (UTC)BTW, "cats on your head" must be a common theme in your life, because one of the funny-pet-stories that I have carried around for years came from you describing waking up with a splitting headache, only to realize that a cat was standing with his back paws firmly planted on your forehead in order to look out the window. :)
Re: It is a little weird
Date: 2005-03-07 16:19 (UTC)that's what you get...
Date: 2005-03-07 21:03 (UTC)Re: that's what you get...
Date: 2005-03-08 03:20 (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-03-07 16:14 (UTC)I readily admit to having email as my first choice for communication with most people. It allows me the opportunity to sort out what I really want to say before I have to say it. Face to face or phone conversation can be very difficult for me, because I am someone who wants desperately to be understood by the people around me, and the best way I know to do that is choose my words very carefully. The differences in my communication styles between oral and written communcation can be very startling to people who have only seen my written work and then have a conversation with me for the first time.
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Date: 2005-03-08 03:22 (UTC)Gods, what did we do without it?
I'll admit right here that our earliest and most exciting flirting was done via IM! Hell, we've both kept the conversations and occasionally go back for a smile or a reminiscence.
Who knew?