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mapsedgeIt's been an interesting evening.
We had a meatless supper of corn on the cob, zucchini, carrots (tri-color!) and black-eyed peas. It was yummy all around. I still don't care for black-eyed peas, but I don't actively dislike them either. Enough salt and pepper makes them tolerable. I was more okay with a meatless meal that I supposed I would be. Heck, I'd even do it again.
I did mow the lawn after supper. Hot as hell outside, but with a good breeze it was tolerable. I hope that the lawn goes dormant for the rest of July and August. I got through it without any difficulty in the heat; my joints are feeling it, though. Tomorrow I meet again with my orthopedist to see what he has to say. The drug he prescribed initially isn't cutting it - or indeed even sanding off the edges - any more. Arthritis, as if there were any doubt, sucks.
Michelle went to an autism support group tonight, and Katie's having a friend over to spend the night. This is a first for Katie. Most kids don't want to invest the work it takes to be friends with someone who is autistic, but Friend doesn't seem to mind, if indeed she even notices. An only child, she's accustomed to doing her own thing and, thus, when Katie checks out she takes it in stride.
In any event, I told Michelle to go ahead and go even though that would leave me at home alone with three kids. Katie's friend is a good kid, and they've been pretty much on their best behavior, but my nerves are still frayed.
Her friend likes to chat. I'm not what you could call chatty. "When's Michelle going to be home?" has come 'round about every twenty minutes. Re-read: "Are we there yet?" Fingernails on a chalkboard, that.
I haven't even really had to do anything; help make the hide-a-bed and provide ice cream, yet I'm still waiting anxiously for Michelle to arrive home which, thankfully, has just happened.
The new kitten, Sarah, has settled in to the routine and, while still a kitten, we're starting to catch glimpses of the cat she'll be. We have gone out of our way to find pets that are lovers, and I think she'll be one. She is sweet, lacking that crazy, chaotic-neutral, half-mean streak that a lot of cats exhibit. She can be very attentive, is more or less boneless in the way that only kittens and ferrets manage to be, and loves to sleep in the crevices a seated person creates while, say, watching Star Trek. She and the parakeet have reached what appears to be an understanding - neither appears more than mildly interested in the other. She got bitten through the bars of the birdcage tonight: call that detente.
Skipper would love to be friends, but Sara's not having any of that yet and Skipper treats her like old dynamite, careful to avoid setting her off. Shiner just waits for the couch to be cat-less before jumping up and going to sleep, though "jumping" is a generous description for that old, arthritic dog.
It took us a year to come around to the idea of having another cat, and, as it was with Skipper, when the opportunity arose there was no question in anyone's mind, not even really stopping to think about it. It was Right.
If there is a downside, it is that she is creative and quite liberal in her interpretation of "litter box". I'm hoping she'll get over that quickly. Nothing assaults the olfactory processors quite like kitten shit.
Michelle has declared lights out for the girls - Jami checked out ninety minutes ago - and I think I'll take her advice for myself.
...aaaaand, plans change. Katie's friend - on her first sleepover away from home - got terribly homesick as soon as the lights went out, tears and everything, so Michelle is taking her home. I feel bad for Katie: her first sleepover ever, and it falls through. I've assured her it's not about her - which I think she understands - and I'm sure she'll be okay, but she is mightily disappointed.
We had a meatless supper of corn on the cob, zucchini, carrots (tri-color!) and black-eyed peas. It was yummy all around. I still don't care for black-eyed peas, but I don't actively dislike them either. Enough salt and pepper makes them tolerable. I was more okay with a meatless meal that I supposed I would be. Heck, I'd even do it again.I did mow the lawn after supper. Hot as hell outside, but with a good breeze it was tolerable. I hope that the lawn goes dormant for the rest of July and August. I got through it without any difficulty in the heat; my joints are feeling it, though. Tomorrow I meet again with my orthopedist to see what he has to say. The drug he prescribed initially isn't cutting it - or indeed even sanding off the edges - any more. Arthritis, as if there were any doubt, sucks.
Michelle went to an autism support group tonight, and Katie's having a friend over to spend the night. This is a first for Katie. Most kids don't want to invest the work it takes to be friends with someone who is autistic, but Friend doesn't seem to mind, if indeed she even notices. An only child, she's accustomed to doing her own thing and, thus, when Katie checks out she takes it in stride.
In any event, I told Michelle to go ahead and go even though that would leave me at home alone with three kids. Katie's friend is a good kid, and they've been pretty much on their best behavior, but my nerves are still frayed.
Her friend likes to chat. I'm not what you could call chatty. "When's Michelle going to be home?" has come 'round about every twenty minutes. Re-read: "Are we there yet?" Fingernails on a chalkboard, that.
I haven't even really had to do anything; help make the hide-a-bed and provide ice cream, yet I'm still waiting anxiously for Michelle to arrive home which, thankfully, has just happened.
The new kitten, Sarah, has settled in to the routine and, while still a kitten, we're starting to catch glimpses of the cat she'll be. We have gone out of our way to find pets that are lovers, and I think she'll be one. She is sweet, lacking that crazy, chaotic-neutral, half-mean streak that a lot of cats exhibit. She can be very attentive, is more or less boneless in the way that only kittens and ferrets manage to be, and loves to sleep in the crevices a seated person creates while, say, watching Star Trek. She and the parakeet have reached what appears to be an understanding - neither appears more than mildly interested in the other. She got bitten through the bars of the birdcage tonight: call that detente.Skipper would love to be friends, but Sara's not having any of that yet and Skipper treats her like old dynamite, careful to avoid setting her off. Shiner just waits for the couch to be cat-less before jumping up and going to sleep, though "jumping" is a generous description for that old, arthritic dog.
It took us a year to come around to the idea of having another cat, and, as it was with Skipper, when the opportunity arose there was no question in anyone's mind, not even really stopping to think about it. It was Right.
If there is a downside, it is that she is creative and quite liberal in her interpretation of "litter box". I'm hoping she'll get over that quickly. Nothing assaults the olfactory processors quite like kitten shit.
Michelle has declared lights out for the girls - Jami checked out ninety minutes ago - and I think I'll take her advice for myself.
...aaaaand, plans change. Katie's friend - on her first sleepover away from home - got terribly homesick as soon as the lights went out, tears and everything, so Michelle is taking her home. I feel bad for Katie: her first sleepover ever, and it falls through. I've assured her it's not about her - which I think she understands - and I'm sure she'll be okay, but she is mightily disappointed.
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Date: 2010-07-15 03:51 (UTC)A friend for the evening is good too, and no awkward breakfast time.
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Date: 2010-07-15 05:53 (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-07-15 13:30 (UTC)Cats
Date: 2010-07-15 12:15 (UTC)Bummer on the sleep over :(