Thank you, J. I do well for the most part, but walking into that place was walking into last February, and I wasn't steeled for it. I'm good today. All the changes to the house - which my mother owned and was a source of constant tension until she was forced to sign it over or face having it taken by Medicaid - are rapidly closing mental doors and putting many ghosts to rest. Instead of just tossing out those pieces of my family that were negative, I'm replacing them with better choices, and that helps.